Colic: When babies don’t stop crying

Colic is when a healthy baby cries for a very long time for no obvious reason. It is common uncontrollable distress in a healthy baby during the first 6 weeks of life and affects 10 – 40% of all babies worldwide. 

What is colic?
Colic usually starts a few weeks after birth and tends to peak around 6 weeks. Between months 3 – 4, it usually improves significantly. Your baby may have colic if they cry more than 3 hours a day, 3 days a week for at least 1 week.

Although colic isn’t a disease, it can be a huge burden to you and your partner. 

What are the signs of colic?

• The symptoms occur when your baby is less than 5 months old
• Cries for no reason even after eating or having the diaper changed
• Starts to cry in the evening, or at the same time every day
• Makes sounds that are more intense than normal, more like a high-pitched scream than a cry
• Recurrent and prolonged periods of crying, fussing, or irritability and cannot be prevented, resolved, or soothed, even feeding and rocking
• The baby is not ill and is thriving

What causes colic?
Colic is a bit of a mystery, and there is no sure answer about the cause. Possible explanations are:

• The child’s temperament might be sensitive and needs more attention
• Poorly developed nervous system
• Unusually high sensitivity to stimulation
• Breastfed babies may be disturbed by their mothers’ diets (Studies have linked colic to mothers who drink cows milk)
• Formula-fed babies may not be comfortable with certain proteins in the formula
• Excessive feeding
• Too much intestinal gas from air swallowed when crying or feeding
• Reflux of acids into the esophagus

What to do?
Talk with your pediatrician about your baby’s crying. Diagnosable causes, like intestinal problems or urinary infections, can be ruled out through health examination. 

Tips for coping with colic:

• Prepare meals ahead of time to avoid being distracted during the screaming sessions
• Let your partner or other family members help you with the baby during the hardest hours
• When the crying gets to you emotionally, put the baby down in a safe place and take some time to gather yourself — remember that this only temporary and happy days are waiting
• Catch some sleep whenever your baby is sleeping so that you are well-rested
• Keep in mind that this doesn’t mean your baby is unwell, and it is not your fault — you’re not a bad mother, and you’re not doing something wrong — it’s colic, and it will go away