Dealing with loss

Mental health

Dealing with loss

When you lose someone or something you love, you will be overcome with grief. It is a natural response to loss.

Grief can be challenging, and the more significant the loss, the more intense your grief will be. The pain of loss can also feel overwhelming. It can make it difficult for you to sleep, eat, or think straight. These are normal reactions to loss — don’t feel ashamed about how you feel or think you shouldn’t be feeling that way. Know that what you feel is normal and would subside with time and effort.

Losses that can lead to grief
Any form of loss — whether it is big or small — can lead to grief. This includes any of the following:

Any of such losses can lead to grief and you may experience all kinds of difficult and unexpected emotions, including: 

If you are experiencing any of these emotions following a loss, it may help to know that your reaction is natural and that you’ll heal with time.

Losing a baby due to a miscarriage
In the case of a miscarriage, you may also have to deal with the physical effect and the expectation to get pregnant again. Your doctor will let you know when you should try again, but being physically ready is not the same as being emotionally ready. Make sure that you are both physically and emotionally ready before you try again. A future pregnancy won’t replace the pregnancy loss, so don’t be in a rush; take your time to grieve.

Coping with the loss of someone you love
Coping with the loss of someone you love can be one of life’s biggest challenges. It can disrupt your physical health, affect your ability to sleep or eat, and trigger depression. 

Since almost all losses are unanticipated and unintentional, in most cases, there’s nothing you could’ve done to stop it. All you can do now is to find the best way to cope and move forward. Here are what you can do for yourself:

It might take a long time. But with time and help, you can heal, manage your grief, and eventually move on.

Thank you note
This article about dealing with loss was made in collaboration and with the support of the Pranaiya & Arthur Magoffin Foundation — Better Well-Being for Parent & Baby.

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